ok what do you do about your husband and his family still in contact with his ex's??

★★★ Katharine ♥ · Yahoo User

Let me tell you - that would be SO annoying. What would I do!?! Ignore them - don't go there often - quit communicating with them - until they can show some respect to you. Bringing up and EX is being disrespectful. I was just talking to my husband about this the other day - he agrees with me. sometimes when me and my husband go out with my sister and husband..... she might say something like... do you remember when "my exs name here" did this..blah blah blah.. EVERYTIME I ignore it - that doesn't deserve a response.... I'm sure she doesnt' think its being disrespectful - thats not what shes trying to do - but, I personally think bringing up my EX's name to me and my husband is very disrespectful. So, ALWAYS ignore their comments..and make sure your husband does too. if they have something to say ABOUT her... walk away ..your husband should too - like ..if you are going to talk about her - talk about her to somebody else - not us.as for the gifts - I'd be like ..whatever..you can keep your crap.the best thing you can do - is make a family with you and your husband - and ..just try to stay away from them....until they can learn to be more respectful.as for the "my space". what you ever thought maybe she has a tracker on hers? thats something I would watch for - you don't want her to think that you are a girl that doesn't have a life - or whatever - so, here is a URL - go in this way - http://www.hideinthesky.com/ms/and it shouldn't track you if she has one. when you put in her myspace id - push the bottom that says "tracker" that will tell you if she has a tracker or not".also, do you have a myspace? if not - get one ..make it entertaining for her..pics of you and your husband...little love quotes - anything to bother her. (don't make it to obvious) - here is a good tracker to put on your myspace - www.statcounter.com - that way you can see how often she goes to yours. did you say your husband has her on his? that is DISREPECTFUL to you if thats a fact - she should be removed - and ignored. I have this tracker on my space - doesn't leave viruses or anything like that - its a good one and simple to do. you take the code - put it on your myspace - (or husbands) - and then go there and see how often she goes there..........then..wait a month and once you get tonz of her IP's..and time/date she was there - and how often she goes to your husbands site - you just put them in a blog - and write "obsessed girl" and put all the times she was at his myspace down! lol. man..wouldn't she feel stupid she was being tracked!So - is that annoying! YES!! what can you do about it? Not much - ignore - have your husband ignore - have your husband say - talking about "so and so" is disrespectful to my wife. if they keep doing it - maybe they will get the hint when you don't want to hang out with them anymore!!!