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♥Cinderella B2B 09♥ Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:44 am Post subject: who in the wedding party are you buying gifts for? |
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| i know the MOH, Bridesmaids, bestman, groomsmen, flower girl and ring bearer get gifts but where do you stand on the mothers of the bride and groom?should i give them somthing?my dad is doing the videoing of the wedding so i am giving him something.anyone else i should be buying for? |
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~*BTB!6.14.08*~ Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:48 am Post subject: |
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| I'm just getting something for my MOHs and my BMs. My fiance is worrying abotu what to get his bestmen and GMs. |
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leaf Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:48 am Post subject: |
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| I'm buying for everyone you mentioned plus the mothers and fathers and the readers and guest book/favor attendants. |
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Mrs E Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:49 am Post subject: |
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| We got gifts for all of the parents, the wedding party, ushers, and reader. Also gave a monetary gift to the soloist. |
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Bellisima Italiana Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:49 am Post subject: |
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| I'm giving the reader in church a small gift as well. |
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i need a vacation Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:50 am Post subject: |
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| I'm getting them for the parents (both sides), all the other ones you said, plus the ushers. |
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floss Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:51 am Post subject: |
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| They usually get a bouquet of flowers at the speeches. All the best for your big dayXXX |
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nova_queen_28 Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:51 am Post subject: |
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| I'm buying for the attendants only. We are not having flower girls or ringbearers.We are ordering corsages for our Moms and boutenierres for the Dads, not giving them gifts. They will all get special photos (paid for by us) AFTER the wedding, but thats the extent of it. If they were contributing to or paying for the wedding, I think a Thank You gift might be in order - but they aren't doing that in our case. |
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Steph Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:51 am Post subject: |
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| I will be getting something for my mum as she has helped me out heaps with the wedding. I think if they played a part in the wedding, whether it be planning, financial or just opinions when asked for them then get them a gift. If they did nothing then dont get them one.It doesn't have to be anything big...I am only buying for wedding party and parents. |
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louiseobrien2002 Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:53 am Post subject: |
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| It is usual to give flowers to the mothers. You can give your dad something if you wan tbut it isn't usual. |
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Enlighten_ME Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:53 am Post subject: |
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your husband  |
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sammy Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:55 am Post subject: |
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| I would by them a personalised mug of the event think you can buy them on here http://www.must-haves.co.uk/gifts.htm on getting personal be like the queen for a laugh. |
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singinintheraino Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 10:56 am Post subject: |
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we bought picture frames for our parents from www.jessicaswedding.com. they came with an engraved plate with our wedding date and names on them and where really pretty glass with mother of pearl flowers. the best part is they were cheap (only $25 each). You can't go wrong with a picture present for your parents  |
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Just tryin' to help Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 11:12 am Post subject: |
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| I got gifts for my wedding party as you mentioned. I also got:Our parents got BIG gifts, as they had all given SO much in order to make the wedding happen.Our readers got little gifts, just a token of our appreciation.My cousin played the organ as our wedding gift. I got him a small gift as well. (Chocolate, as a thank you)My aunt was the "wedding planner" that the church required. This was a TOTALLY messed up situation, but anyway...we got her a box of chocolates as well.We also got our grandparents a small frame and put a picture in it.FYI: My "small gifts" were gourmet chocolate from Godiva. They were having a sale, and we got six boxes of chocolates and four "wedding cake" chocolates for $40 total. (Generally, the "cakes" alone are $20 for four!) I think we spent about $900 - $1000 for all the gifts combined, except the parents. (Ten attendants, two flower girls plus all the chocolates and frames) We bought jewelry cases and necklace/earing sets for the girls. The boxes were all engraved with a "(Name)Thanks so much. Love, (Bride) and (Groom) (date)" For the guys we got them pocket watches, again engraved with "Thanks (Groom) and (Bride)" with their initials on the other side. For the flower girls we bought frames, engraved with their name and our names, a wedding picture to be added. We also bought them a bunch of fun kid stuff (what 2 or 5 year old wants a frame, really?). |
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♥Carmela♥ Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 11:13 am Post subject: |
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| You have to buy something special for the mother, I bought a jewlery box from things remembered and put a locket inside with a picture of my husband and I in it |
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