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Becca
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 Posted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 8:00 pm Post subject: I don't know what to do? |
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| I don't know what to do anymore! Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost 2 years now, we have a son who is 7 months old, soon 8 months! My boyfriend keeps putting himself in first of everyone, his family, me, his son, everyone! I love him soo much, i just don't want to get hurt by him again (emotional way)! I am very emotional, it is very hard to live like this! For ocations like Valentine's Day, Christmas, things like that, where you buy your girlfriend a gift. He was 1-2 months late buying me a Christmas gift, and he hasnt bought me a Valetine's gift yet! Valentine's Day means alot to me, but the only thing is, i like gifts that can be kept, not going out and eat! I just love having something that can be close to me forever, not something that will be close to me for 2 days! Everytime i try to talk to him he gets mad at me, then i starts to cry or get mad or something! I want to tell him how much it means to me, but i'm scared it will cause a break-up! What should i do? |
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musicfanatic
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| Posted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 8:15 pm Post subject: |
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| I know exactly what you're going thru, my husband of 20 plus years is like that. He doesn't buy me Christmas, Birthday, Valentine, Mother's Day, or Anniversary Cards or gifts. He used to in the beginning, but when he realized that he had me, he stopped. It's hard because it hurts my feelings that he can be so heartless.There's nothing you can do short of making them, but if you did that it wouldn't be from them or their heart. It's hard, especially when I buy him things along with cards. Some guys are just not the gift or card buying type. Sorry I couldn't help, all I can do is say,"I know what you're going thru", and it sucks! |
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Callie B.
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| Posted: Mon Jun 02, 2008 8:23 pm Post subject: |
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| It is really hard to end a relationship after two yrs. And on top of that you have a beautiful son, that needs both parents in his life. But at the same time you do not want your son to grow up thinking that it's okay to treat woman that way because daddy does it to mommy. What you need to start doing is living and working for your son and yourself. Stop worrying about your bf and if he is worried about you. What you can do if he doesn't want to talk or the fact that he gets mad when you try to explain how you feel. Do this instead, sit down and write him a letter and let him know how you feel and how his actions and lack of concern not just for you but your son to is causing your family to be torn apart. Let him know that when you try to talk with him he dismisses your feelings along with your thoughts as if they do not matter. Let him know that your feelings matter and so does your son's feelings. Let him know that you gave birth to his child and not another man's child. Let know that if he can't make a decision about putting his family before his own needs then you will make the decision for him and leave. I know what I'm saying sound really hard and a lot of other things. But you need to do what is right for your son and his happiness. He deserves the best out of life. And if his dad is not showing it then you need to step up and walk out on him until he can get his self together. |
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