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samprice
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 Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 7:07 pm Post subject: child support? |
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| Your Open QuestionShow me another ยป Ex-husband wants to stop support for his son?ex-husband want to stop support for his son he hasnt paid support for his son since may 5 2008 ,this is when my son went to visit his uncle for the summer but iam sending support to my brother for my son can my ex's support stop because my son is visiting his uncle my ex said too he wanted to stop support because he doesnt have a job ... and my son quit school he is 17 but when he comes back he either goes back to school or night classes my ex-husband hasnt seen his son in 3 yrs. and hasnt bought him any birthday gifts or christmas gifts since he came to live at my residence but now my son is 17 and haveing a little problems and it is all because of him not visiting him and being a dad he feels left out because he has 3 other kids with his wife and 2 more with me and they all get gifts .... except for my son.... can my ex stop support if my son isnt here for the summer months ,he has a lawyer ..now he has a lawyer gonna fight for him and it just isnt righti need help please someone give me some advice iam pulling out my hair with worry wondering if they may just cancel the child support all together |
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skibelle
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| Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 7:12 pm Post subject: |
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| a visit is not custody. Call a legal help line in your state to answer your question. |
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magnolia_76
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| Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 7:16 pm Post subject: |
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| He can't get it stopped just because your son is going away on a summer vacation.But if your ex stops working, it will stop, but it will go against him, unless he does go to court to get it changed.on the 17 and not in school thing, there are different laws in different states on that.. Some say you will get support until your child is 18 or out of high school. My sister didn't graduate high school until she was 19 so my dad had to pay until she graduated. Some states say that if your child quites school, then you no longer have to pay. If I were you I would call the Attorney General office in your state, and ask them, they will no the laws that govern your state, and it won't cost you a thing just to ask them..~ |
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Wonderingman
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| Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 7:22 pm Post subject: |
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| He has to pay. The law is the same in every state..if he is the father he is responsible until your son turns age 18. This has nothing to do with you..it is the state making him fullfil his obligation as a father. Right now he is building up debt...contact Health and Human Services..they will garnish his pay and send you a check. |
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Lily
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| Posted: Tue Jun 10, 2008 7:24 pm Post subject: |
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| He has the lawyer, so I guess he has the upper hand. Making nice will get you a lot further than making ugly. It sounds like he has never bonded with the boy. It is hard to bond when you are just thought of as a wallet. |
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