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B J
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 Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 2:50 pm Post subject: Girl advice please!? |
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| So i like this girl, she has a very abusive bf they only been together for a month. He treats her bad, and cheats on her and talks smack behind her back!.... also he said he just wants to hit those!...shes aware of that already but is still with him because she does not want to be lonely. I been liking her for 8 months now but recently told her i liked her and does not believe me?... i wont be back till august in her city!... 1.Any ideas i can prove to her i like her?2.Like her bday cooming up im planing on getting her roses, dozen balloons, and a teddy bear... and a gift card? good idea or bad idea since she going out with a fake dough? ill fight him no prob!.3.They would be together for about 4 months when im back there would there be hope for me to come in? |
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Keeli
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| Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 2:56 pm Post subject: |
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| definitely send her a birthday gift, but make it a little more personal. get her something that will mean a lot to her, like something you have an inside joke about.you still have a chance with her when you get back; just keep talking to her while you're gone. tell her you've heard what he says to her and about her. |
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Angel L
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| Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 2:56 pm Post subject: |
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| FIRST OF ALL, tell somebody that she is getting abused!!! PLEASE. She will thank you in the long run! THAT is what you can do to prove you like her! |
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emilia
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| Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 2:57 pm Post subject: |
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| Well if she doesnt want to be with him anymore and she shouldnt be.If i were you i would tell her that she should be with someone better because she should is better then that. And tell her that you are here for her and tell her that she shouldnt be lonely because your there for herand tell her your feelings about her... it will work good luck |
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Ratty Fan
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| Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 2:58 pm Post subject: |
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| 1-2. Do what she likes...if you think she'd like that, go for it!3. There's always hope!4. Go for it...but if she doesn't go for you it could be b/c she has such low self esteem, maybe thinks she doesn't deserve a nice guy (like you)...so do try, but if she ends up staying with an asshole, then that is her decision. |
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Camille M
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| Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 2:58 pm Post subject: |
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| Most likely she does not believe you like her because her boyfriend has probably put down her self esteem. You can give her a letter or something, stating why you like her, etc. There might be hope for you. GL. |
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getruff69
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| Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 2:58 pm Post subject: |
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| wow i wish some prince charming liek you had rescued me from my scumbag bf! most the time a girl just stays with somebody like that b/c when they're alone, they share alot of snuggling,luving time. He prolly makes her feel really special sometimes. So what you need to do, is make her feel that way too! and the gift card, roses etc. is a great idea! |
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dolly-love
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| Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:00 pm Post subject: |
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| what about seein` her and tell her u like her in a romantic way and make her feel like her bf doesn`t worth her , treat her like a diamond .. i wish it helps |
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HEXR
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| Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:00 pm Post subject: |
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| yea thats a good idea. let her know its from u tho. so she doesnt think its her bf that sent it to her. ask her if she likes u. and if u would hav a chance with her. but if she really likes her bf...i dont think theres a way to change her mind. |
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sweetsugargurl
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| Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:02 pm Post subject: |
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| Wow. If she's abused, it will probably take a while before she can trust anyone again. Try just talking to her, because any good relationship is built on communication and trust. Let her find out that, unlike her current boyfriend, you will always be there for her and love her. Given time, she may come to like you. I wouldn't suggest giving her gifts when she going out with someone. I don't think she'd like you to fight him. Best of luck to you! |
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Sexy Booty
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| Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:03 pm Post subject: |
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| You sound like a really nice guy but she's a dumb bitch for being with a guy that treats like shit and she still wants to be with him! Why do you want to be her? Maybe you should find someone that's more on your level because she seems to like guys that treat like crap and she's insecure. I dunno what else you can do to prove to her you like if you already like her! But if you insist in wanting to be her then you should send her a gift or something even though i i know you won't have any type chance! Trust me i know many girls like this and for some reason they stay with guys like this... |
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♥alissa♥ily♥
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| Posted: Wed Jun 11, 2008 3:14 pm Post subject: |
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| i think a gift card maybe a lil like look at me i can buy you anything, so i think stick with the teddy,flowers, &baloons. (also idk what a fake dough is?)it would be sooo sweet if u where like, "why r u still with him after all he does to u?" then she will say "i told u, i dont wanna be lonely..." then u look into her eyes and say, "...you dont have to be..."HOW CUTE DOES THAT SOUND? cUtE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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