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BL13
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 Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:13 am Post subject: Girl advice please? |
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| I like a girl who has a bf who treats her bad and cheats on her.I told her how i felt about her but she does not believe me.... because we had never met in person even dough i went to her school but she does not member me!... we just txt, talk, and myspace and i dont know what to do? they also sleep at each others house, but no sex!... shes not a hoe!. But it bothers me because hes a fake he said he just wants to hit those!.And shes falling for him slowly!.... and i wont be back til august in ca im away for a while what can i do till then?1.Also her bday this week im sending her roses, and ballooons, teddy bear, gift card? is this good? i dont give a crap what her bf think!. |
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NiCOlE_
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:17 am Post subject: |
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aw that's sweet.i say keep trying ! and good luck  |
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Shadow*s Lunacy
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:18 am Post subject: |
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| Umm....It takes two to tango. One day she'll see through his charade and you need to be there with open arms. Do not say 'i told you so.' just comfort her. You'll see. ;)Best of luck. |
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vuja90
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:18 am Post subject: |
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| go for it. |
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Dootiekay
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:19 am Post subject: |
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| Also for her Birthday, send her LOTS of chocolate. We girls love!!!! chocolate. Tell her bf off. |
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jachavez81
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:20 am Post subject: |
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| I say she needs to learn her lesson. I'm assuming your a guy...and according to her...you're in the "friend zone." Theres not much you can do if she hasnt already seen what this guy is already like. You'll have to be there to pick up the pieces like a true friend in the end...because thats what good friends do. She'll thank you for it later. |
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crazy_elf_220
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:20 am Post subject: |
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| ok well there is nothing you can do expect tell her how you feel about her its up to her if she wants to leave or not. As for sending the roses and all that you might not care what the boyfriend says but lets say he treats her bad and everything well what do you think will happen when he sees all the stuff you sent her .. he will prolly beat the livin crap out of her for cheating or something stupid since he is that bad or so you say. But like i said just tell her what you think and thats the end of it .. if she wants to stay with a guy like that then its her own stupidity and if its cause shes scared you may inform her of places a girl can go to get away from a guy like that. Or if shes willin to go with you maybe offer to come get her. |
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Alyssa W
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:20 am Post subject: |
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| THe gift thing is good. When u r on vacation, keep in touch w/ her.I dont really know what 2 do about the bf thing.good luck |
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smithduke36
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:21 am Post subject: |
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| I wouldn't send her anything because her boyfriend could take it out on her. She would have a lot of explaining to do and if he's abusive it could end up being a bad situation.Look at her side of it. She really doesn't know who you are and if you're sincere or not. You can't force her to like you just like you can't force her to leave her boyfriend. Be there for her and just support her when she needs it. That will go a lot further in the long run. |
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♥Ms. Misfit♥
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:22 am Post subject: |
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| Call he rup and tell her about her boyfriend, if she doesn't believe you, tell him what he says about. (if he just says he wants her in bed) If your really good friends she'll trust you. Yes, send her the gifts. |
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CR1CKET
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:23 am Post subject: |
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| If the BF is really that bad, she will see thought it eventually. For her it will be a live through experience thing though. Some times in life, it doesn't matter how many times you tell someone that things aren't the way they should be...but they won't see it until things fall in on them.Hopefully waiting around for her will work out for you...but don't dismiss other options just because your heart is set on her... |
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Mylene L
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:26 am Post subject: |
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| Fight for your love to her, and win her in your arms, but you can not do that she does not even know you personally. You know the man is bad for her, and you still care, concern about her. She needs someone like you, who is there for her in times of crisis or troubles. For me, do not send her anything, because in the first place you said her boyfriend is treating her bad, she might be in trouble when he sees that Just talk to her and get to know her more I hope someday you both will meet and you can defend her from her boyfriend. |
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letting go
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| Posted: Tue Jun 17, 2008 8:31 am Post subject: |
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| ewww how romantic ... sigh !! i wish i found someone like me like you like her !! |
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