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patel
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:33 pm Post subject: Marriage & Divorce --- help me to save my marriage from my wife's nature..... CONTINUE....2nd part?

I have asked this question before and I want to continue that discussion to find out what do you think about my wife based on this scenario....my wife always fight with me this way.She always expect gift from me in all occasion like B'Day, Anniversary, mothers day etc...The day before this year mother’s day she asked me if I bought any gifts for her behalf of my kids. I said no. I told her I can give you money & you can buy your self because you don’t like my gift and you fight with me. She said no. I need the gift from you so I bought 3 t-shirts/tops for her. She opened it, take a look and throw on the floor saying that I don't like any one and she said you buy this because of less money and you knew that I don't like it so you are going to return the store...after that she keep talking bad things to me...she cancel our dinner plan. She talks bad about my parents. I told her sorry so many times. She said because of marriage with me she destroyed her life. She is normal after 2 days.

cris T
Yahoo User

Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:38 pm Post subject:

Did you do something in the past that may make her act like this?

Swamprat
Yahoo User

Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:40 pm Post subject:

You want to save that. Good luck. Sounds to me like you cant satisfy that women no way no how. Does she buy for you ?

Mr.HATE
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:42 pm Post subject:

if you have no kids . . . get OUT. if you DO or it's been a long marriage, leave the complainer at home and go out saying you work late. Go to movies, date other women, whatever you like to do but never be home. Let her sit and ROT at home, no divorce, no husband, no friend, just SIT alone. You go have fun and enjoy your life.

Lisa G
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:44 pm Post subject:

She is greedy and spoiled.Tell her that you will never buy her a present again.Take the kids to a craft store or work with them at home and have them make her a gift. (ie. A t-shirt that the kids paint and put their hand prints on, a hand painted dish, cards that they drew, etc...)From now on she can have a bouquet of flowers fro mthe kids with their home-made gifts.On her birthday and other holidays...buy her a bouquet of flowers and a gift card (ie. $20.00 gift card to salon, store she likes).Until she stops acting like a selfish witch...she deserves to get the minimum.Best wishes

No Name Girl
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:45 pm Post subject:

Whoa!---she is really mental. Maybe she has serious hormonal problems and needs to go to a doctor right now. But, whatever her choice she cannot continually make the choice to treat you like her pet. You have to set boundaries with her saying something like if you continue to speak to me in a hateful way.....I will leave the room or leave the party or leave the house for a while until you can speak to me as your beloved and not a dog. It is not okay for you to continually have to accept to live this way. Please get counseling.

Mrs. Robinson
Yahoo User

Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:46 pm Post subject:

she sounds spoiled rotten period. nothing your gonna do will ever be ok, well unless you win the lottery and have indefinite resources for her.

sarah a
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:46 pm Post subject:

Could she be Bipolar? Maybe she should see a doctor. My best friends husband was llike that and he was bipolar.

DarkAngel
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:47 pm Post subject:

It just might be that your wife has serious anger issues she needs help with, but after reading your post again, she may be suffering a type of depression or other mental health problem. If she's at the age where menopause might be starting (which can cause behavior like this) you need to get her to agree to see a doctor. If she refuses then go see your own doctor and voice your concerns for her. This kind of behavior can escalate into physical arguements and you dont want that.

Alan
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Posted: Wed Jun 18, 2008 3:55 pm Post subject:

Look up Gary Smalley for his marriage seminars. He has videos, books, etc. Men need to learn that women are wired up different in many ways. They need loving, attention, sacrifice, a lot of things. What do they do for you? Try it and find out.

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