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roberta r Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 1:03 pm Post subject: Looking for bridal shower wording for a couple how already has what they need? They have pots..what they need? |
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| I am looking for wording for a bridal shower invitation for a couple who already lives together and is not registering. I heard of one that goes they have the pots and pans.....lets give them gift certificates to resturants, nights out....Can someone please help me? Thank you |
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red Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 1:09 pm Post subject: |
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| Since Tom and Jane have many items for their home, it can be difficult to choose something for them. If you need suggestions, please let me know.For you, find out what they would like - otherwise it's up to the givers to determine without too much influence from you. |
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Stevie N Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 1:10 pm Post subject: |
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| It is rude to state specifically what the bridal couple wants. That's like looking a gift horse in mouth.If someone should ask then they might suggest a favorite restaurant or club or kind of wine etc.Gifts can be given thanks for and then returned to the store to get credit. |
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tigglys Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 1:19 pm Post subject: |
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| That's why I like to recommend that couples register . . . you can register for SO MANY things & places these days. Do they like the outdoors? Register at REI. It really helps folks who don't know what to get them.(I hope someone knows what you are looking for though, I have some friends who are getting married who don't need anything too!) |
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barthebear Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 1:30 pm Post subject: |
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| I think you could simply state that the couple has the usual home accoutrement's and is not registering. I hope someday that bridal showers become extinct since that is the usual situation nowadays. One STILL has to buy a wedding gift too so it is quite redundant and excessive. In fact, lets begin a movement against bridal showers. Still keep the baby showers though only for firstborn |
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teresathegreat Yahoo User
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Posted: Fri Jun 27, 2008 2:27 pm Post subject: |
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| The invitation should not list their registry - a gift is not a requisite for attending any event, even a shower. The guest should contact you if they have questions about what to give. "Please contact hostess Jane Smith with any questions." Then you can tell them off the record. |
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Cindy Yahoo User
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Posted: Sat Jun 28, 2008 9:34 pm Post subject: |
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| Tell people to instead donate to a certain charity in honor of the couple's marriage. There are many non-profit charities out there that would be grateful for the donation.Or have them register and then return it and get something they really want. Nobody can already have everything they want. Unless they are super rich. It is really rude to write what they don't want. Just have them register at a place that they want stuff. Like the person before me said, REI or another sporting goods store if they like that stuff.If I were them I would register at a gas station! Have people buy them gas cards! LOL!!!! |
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