Should I call the police or have a guy friend call him and tell him to leave us alone?

Sarah · Yahoo User

I met a man the other day.. He was very handsome and carried him self in a very respectful manner. He asked me to have coffee with him and I accepted. We exchanged phone numbers and he called me later that same day. We spoke briefly on the phone and set up a time and place to meet. He called to confirm the night before our coffee date and again we spoke briefly.. He asked me why I wasn’t married or had a boyfriend.. I answered, because I just haven’t met the right guy. I asked him the same, and he answered by saying “ it’s a long story, I’ll tell you tomorrow, it will give us something to talk about.”When we met he asked me to walk with him to his car because he had a gift for me. When he opened the door there were flowers waiting on the seat. He asked me to sit inside the car because he had another gift for me.. Then he reached in the back seat and grabbed his guitar.. He sang a song to me in spanish, I thought it was so romantic. Then came the getting to know each other time.. I told him a bit about myself and again he asked me why I wasn’t married or had a boyfriend.. I answered the same and asked him the same question. He answered by telling me he was married.. My heart started beating fast and I felt like I stopped breathing. How could he I thought… So many things ran through my head in a matter of seconds! I wanted to scream at him, kick him, slap him! But I took a deep breath and said … Are you living with your wife? Are you guys having problems right now? Do you think this is right? Your wife does not deserve this! She is probably at home thinking you are faithful to her.. And I’m sure she doesn’t think the problems you two have are bad enough to drive you to cheat on her.I asked , did you seriously think I was going to accept this from you? Anyway.. I stood up and walked out.He called me and left five messages I erased them all before I even heard his voice. Then he showed up at my house asking for me. My mother happened to be there at the time, she asked if she could go out there and tell him to leave.. I agreed to that.. So she went outside and spoke to him, asked him to leave and he did. He then left three other messages and showed up again. We weren’t there the last time he showed up but our worker called us and said the gentleman was there looking for me or my mother. We told our worker to tell him that we have his phone number and we will be contacting him. He said he will be out of town for the weekend and he wanted us to call him on Monday.Should I call the police or have a guy friend call him and tell him to leave us alone?