does my wife love me?
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icewitch54
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 Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 1:43 pm Post subject: |
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| What I got from your question was that basically it is all about your needs. I got no sense of you considering or understanding her needs. She may well feel that all you want her for is sex.....and that, after 15 years, will be a bit of a slap in the face. Benefits? What benefits? That you meet your obligations? That you expect her to .....show you affection when I dare say she feels that all she is worth to you is someone to look after the house and the children and your sexual needs.Why not do something spontaneous yourself.......like getting someone to look after the children for a night or two........give her the opportunity to actually relax and feel like a pampered woman, for a change? |
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Monsieur Rcik
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 1:49 pm Post subject: |
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| Marriage counseling will find out who threw passion out of your marriage along with the bathwater...and a lot more. Don't wait a day. |
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happy
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 2:09 pm Post subject: |
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| sometimes its hard for women and even sometimes men to express their emotions with even the closest person to them. i think you should explain to her that you feel like she doesnt love you....n.... keep quiet n see what she does....if anything. good luck |
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Tulip
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| Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 3:58 pm Post subject: |
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| It does sound like its all one way traffic.The thing is it is easy to say you love someone but love is an action and you need to feel love.A relationship needs nurturing to grow and this has to be a two way thing. Also, for a relationship to work both parties need to be 100% committed and your wife isn't showing much, if any committment. It could just be that your wife is taking you for granted and doesn't fully realise what she has got; this is very common in a long standing relationship.You could suggest counselling but your wife may refuse to go. However, you could go alone and this will probably still be helpful to you and the situation you are in.The other thing you could try is to reduce or stop the gifts, flowers etc, and see if you wife realises and more importantly wonders why they have stopped. I can empathize with you because my husband and I went through a bad patch and were trying to improve things, and he used to tell me he would try and then do absolutely jack sh*t. He wouldn't even cuddle me and when I would ask for a cuddle he would relent and do so, but it was like being cuddled by a fridge. I can understand the frustration because I felt like I was hitting my head on the wall. After 3 months later he left me and went back to his mums, but ironically after four months he wanted to come back.If things don't end up working out, don't be afraid to be alone because you deserve better than this and life is too short to be unhappy. |
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