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Ellyn C Yahoo User
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Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 12:27 am Post subject: My birthday just ended? |
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| My birthday just ended and I am upset because my b/f didn't buy a gift/flowers/ card or anything. In fact he told me that if I hadn't said anything he would have not even remember anything about it except it was in July. "It's just another day to me"! We have been together for 3 yrs. We both had to work today but even the folks at work bought me a cake, I received numerous phone calls from friends, so that makes me feel better. Just your opinion please?! I do feel hurt as his birthdat is something I try to make special! |
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Frosty Yahoo User
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Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 12:31 am Post subject: |
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| Most guys are bad at remembering birthdays, anniversaries, etc. It is not personal, it's a "guy thing". Suck it up. |
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Doctor Frankenstein Yahoo User
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Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 12:34 am Post subject: |
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| Men are superior they just don't overthink things that's why they get things done. |
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Patrick H Yahoo User
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Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 12:36 am Post subject: |
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| I can say many things, but the bottom line is that HE SHOULD HAVE REMEMBERED!! He should definitely remember the day you were brought into this world!! |
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acris Yahoo User
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Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 12:48 am Post subject: |
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| Listen dear, in a relationship You have to sacrifice many times...........And a relation named love u will have to sacrifce many thing and its a truth..........Like here u will have to sacrifice ur happiness if u want to keep ur relation smooth and haapy...........Dont worry about that if he forgot ur birthday....I know its painful 4 u to bear this......Lt e tell u a way to make him realise that if he would have wished atleast bought a single flower/rose u would have been very happy..........and the method is....On his birthday wish him with plenty of good wishes and celebrate that with full joy and tell him at last as i said aboveand one more thing that as ur relation will get older n older he will forget many things.........its beet to marry him as soon as possible if u r intrested....All d best for ur life........ |
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Gabs Yahoo User
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Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 1:09 am Post subject: |
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| He should be man enough to listen to what you have to say about it. Tell him how you feel, and he'd better listen. If he gets up and leaves in a huff, than he's an insensitive bastard. If he apologizes and promises to reform, hooray! |
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Hannah S Yahoo User
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Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 1:19 am Post subject: |
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| I doubt its a personal thing. My bf of 4 years once didnt remember by birthday. These things dont seem to be a big deal to guys. Make sure he does something special tonight though. Ring him now and tell him he is taking you out for dinner tonight.!Bloody men! |
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Cool. Yahoo User
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Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 1:22 am Post subject: |
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| guys dont care about special daysmy dad didnt even want to give me a sweet 16 present and i was pissedwe just have to get over the fact that guys are pigs |
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Mister Yahoo User
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Posted: Wed Jul 09, 2008 1:31 am Post subject: |
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| Love him anyway...I'm that way too...but I still love her.Lot's of guys are that way...it's why they have all of thos e anniversary jokes.Don't penalize him on that oneForgets first Kiss? Yeah.....bring out the whips |
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applechick44 Yahoo User
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Posted: Thu Jul 10, 2008 7:38 am Post subject: |
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| are you kidding me! the first comment to this question.. your heartless it is not a guy thing and she does not have to suck it up!!! the fact that you have been together 3 years and he doesnt' remember your bday! that was messed up and you have every right to feel hurt |
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