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angel
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 Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 6:39 am Post subject: major prob? |
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| ok guys , my father gifted a Saree to my mother on their anniversary, 19th july is my mothers b'day he gifted her a Saree again but the twist in the tale is tht both the sarees r quite similar ; infact the only diff. b/w the two is of color now my mother wants to change one of those sarees but she isn't doing so coz she doesnt want to hurt my father's feelings ? wht to do ? can u help?i' m not interfering , my mother is confused, $ i'm helping her out .each saree costs Rs 7,000/- so thr is no point in keeping both the sarees . thts y she wants to change the saree fr another one ,but then a gift is a gift na $ tht too frm my father. |
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khayum p
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| Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 6:42 am Post subject: |
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| Dont interfere in ;your mothers choice and hurt your father's feelings. |
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Laredo
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| Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 6:58 am Post subject: |
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| A Saree is Indian attire and some of them are "to die for" they're so beautiful. I cannot recall ever seeing one that I didn't like. Your mother doesn't need your help and you shouldn't interfere. She can discuss it with her husband, explain her situation, and ask if he would object if she exchanged it for a different style. I've bought the same style of clothing in different colors because I liked it. I don't see anything wrong with it because I will not be wearing both of them the same day.It would be best if you kept quite and allowed your parents to work on the issue. I don't see it as being a "major" problem. |
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Eileen J
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| Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 7:02 am Post subject: |
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| It is totally up to your mom what she should do...If she wants your opion,,give it to her..if she wants others...I would ask how much she needs it verses the $...If she doesn't need it ,,I would suggest her talking to her husband and telling him that she LOVES his gifts and appreciates his kindness but that she would rather use the $ on something more needed or wanted...Tell him why ,,,because they are so much the same in design and you would rather a different style or something more needed....(I am only going on what I hear most men say about gifts). I think most guys try to give things that they think their wifes really like and since she already liked the other one he gave her ,,he figured it was a great gift and would do it again...I think alot of guys hate shopping and have NO clue what their girls really want unless we tell them...They just want to make their women happy....I have told my husband many times that his gifts were great but that they weren't something I would use much and I would rather exchange them for something else...He never got hurt feelings but he did start asking me what I want now alot more..I just give him hints and let him think he made all the choices when he gives me any gifts...It usually works well this way...HE HATES TO SHOP and has NO clue what I NEED OR WANT unlesss I tell him....Good luck... |
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sandyboy
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| Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 7:14 am Post subject: |
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| i think ur mom can keep them bth.. thank god they both werent of the same color... it wont be the last saree ur mom will be buying right.. so ask ur mom to take it easy... if she still wnts to change then she can tell ur dad about the prob and go with him and change it to watever she wants... |
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Aditi S
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| Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 8:28 am Post subject: |
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| ok i got 2 options 1 tell ur father that both the saares r same and ask him that if u could change/return one of them2 Wear the saare that u wanna return only once and then return it without teling ur dad so that way he wouldn't even now about it ur choice one of them is good and other one is bad |
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