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Mustang Fannay Yahoo User
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 11:20 pm Post subject: Be Honest. What would you do in my situation? |
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| Just honestly tell me what you would do. I'll try to keep this short.I've been with my BF for 15 months now.He doesnt have a job.( & been saying hes going to "try" and get one all summer.)Never invites me out.Didnt even celebrate our 1 year anniversary. =[[Has never gave me any sort of gift, even flowers...Is very lazy.Only says 'I love you' on IM or Myspace...Get jealous when i spend "too" much time with friends.Many times I am the one giving him rides and never admits hes wrong...Now I am not materialistic AT ALL, c'mon if I was, I woulda dumped him a long time ago...but Ladies....has this gone too far?...what would you do?? |
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Sally J Yahoo User
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 11:24 pm Post subject: |
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| Why are you with him?How embarrassing I would leave him. It's not because he has no money it's because he so obviously doesn't care about you and is lazy, unmotivated and disgusting! |
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Stache Man Yahoo User
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 11:24 pm Post subject: |
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| Why are you staying with a loser like this? That's the thing you need to answer, not asking us whether you should stay...you already know the answer to that. |
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chris T Yahoo User
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 11:25 pm Post subject: |
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| sounds like he is holding you back from moving forward. a person that is self motavated and going somewhere will rub off good energy onto you. |
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pianogurl167 Yahoo User
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 11:27 pm Post subject: |
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| i would break up with him, its obvious he doesn't care about you, even if he has no money, he could have at least acknowledged your anniversary, there is no excuse for that |
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Wonders_Never_Cease Yahoo User
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 11:27 pm Post subject: |
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| There are way too many normal guys out there to even consider giving this goober the time of day.....drop him and move on. |
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wicked Yahoo User
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 11:30 pm Post subject: |
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| its not a matter of being materialistic at all. he said he is your bf, but is this even a relationship? It seems you are the only one 'giving' to keep this going.just answer this question:Do you think you deserve this? im sure you would know what to do. |
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buildmeanempire Yahoo User
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Posted: Mon Jul 21, 2008 11:30 pm Post subject: |
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| i honestly hope for your sake you DONT see a future with him. if he is like this now, he will be like this later, and it WILL only get worse. he obviously doesnt care about anything, not even himself. but honestly you shouldnt be asking us what to do. you should be asking yourself, "WHAT AM I DOING WITH THIS BUM?" |
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