Why should women usually/need to get treated better than men in dating ?

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Why should women usually/need to get treated better than men in dating ? I mean there chivalry-[courteous behavior, especially that of men towards women] but women dont have to do equal treatment toward men or they do less than want is expected men do. Why dont more women take there men out and pay for them as much as men usually do? Some women expect the man to pay all of the dates, and most men do. The problem is men go along wit this, they usually think want can I buy her to MAKE her like me. They do stupid things( without the women reciprocating back) like expensive dinner on the first date, flower, gifts, out of the box favors, paying for everything, let women verbally and physically abuse him without leaving her, free vacations. Men If really want to know if there girlfriend like them 4real, respect her but dont spoil her, demand to be treated with the same respect u give her. Let her fall in luv with u not want u can do 4 her financially. What do yall think about this ?Women have want they didnt have back in the day opportunities to make money. Men shouldnt care if she is paid less than him. She doesnt have take him to a expensive spot, just reciprocate... please. Men if ya women wants respect have her earn it just like u have to earn hers. Also all of this doesnt apply to every man and women just most. Look forward to honest opinions