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lupigirl25
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 Posted: Fri May 04, 2007 3:26 pm Post subject: I'm hosting a wedding shower and need to know the right way to tell guests to just bring Gift cards? |
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| I know it's not proper but this is a second marriage for the bride and a first for the groom. She already has a house and everything that is needed for it and he is moving here from another country. Just not sure how to word "Just Bring Gift Cards" Thanks for you help. |
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mrs sexy pants
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| Posted: Fri May 04, 2007 3:35 pm Post subject: |
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| it's really simple ... on the bottom of each card, simply put:"Bride & Groom would prefer cash or gift cards, as they have most everything they need. Thank you." |
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str8talker
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| Posted: Fri May 04, 2007 3:39 pm Post subject: |
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| That is as tacky as they come. It's not up to you or the bride and groom to tell people what to buy them. If I got an invitation like that I wouldn't go.... |
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dharp66
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| Posted: Fri May 04, 2007 3:39 pm Post subject: |
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| in the invitations ( & i suppose those that come to the event will know them, so it should not be such a hassle) write out very brief but kind "it will be a great help to both the bride and groom if guests will use gift cards to express their best wishes for the new couple"if you get questioned about it just explain a bit like you did in the write up - - - i would hope all will understand.best of luck |
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riversconfluence
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| Posted: Fri May 04, 2007 3:40 pm Post subject: |
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| You shouldn't tell people what to bring, actually, they do not have to bring a gift at all. It is rude and tacky, and a sure fire way to cause hard feelings among the guests..You are supposed to wait, and if anyone asks, have that info ready. A sneaky thing to do is to use your telephone number as the RSVP, and when people call to do that, ask, "do you need any suggestions for buying a gift?"" You know, Mary already has a household, bet she would love gift cards from x, y, or Z, or some money. You know she is relocating to timbuckto next month." |
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trebor namyl hcaeb
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| Posted: Fri May 04, 2007 3:43 pm Post subject: |
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| How about *asking* them - *not* telling them - to just bring cards expressing, "Good Luck, This Time!"?Sorry, "str8talker": I goofed again! I accidentally rated your *good* answer as a "bad" answer and don't know how to undo it! |
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best bet
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| Posted: Fri May 04, 2007 3:43 pm Post subject: |
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| That's tricky but people will understand.Put this in the invitation:"If you were thinking of giving a gift, to help (names) on their way?A gift of cash towards (reason) would really make their day.However, if you prefer to purchase a gift, feel free to surprise them in your own way." |
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racer 51
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| Posted: Fri May 04, 2007 4:05 pm Post subject: |
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| it really isn't neccesary. the people who are invited should already know the details. however, you could just state on the invites, "gift card's much appreciated" many people will love it. it saves them shopping time and trying to find the right gift. they may bring other gifts too but i think the majority will get the cards. the couple will be grateful for any gifts received. |
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littleviv2000
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| Posted: Fri May 04, 2007 4:44 pm Post subject: |
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| I wouldn't go so far as to actually ask for gift cards/money, I would just state something along the lines of: "The couple already has all the material things they need". |
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Jen
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| Posted: Fri May 04, 2007 9:02 pm Post subject: |
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| There is no way to do this tactfully. Do not write anything on the invitations. Just don't do it.However, if people call you and ask what they can give as a gift it IS acceptable to say, "Well, Sue and Tom have everything they need because they have a house but they really love going to Macy's" ...or whatever such thing.It's never appropriate to refer to gifts on an actual wedding invitation. |
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frostbite
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| Posted: Sat May 05, 2007 8:52 am Post subject: |
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| i would recommend the bride register. at least that way she can take back stuff she doesn't need to get something else. to say "just bring gift cards" is very tacky. (although it would look tacky for the bride not you.) |
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