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JJ Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 11:24 am Post subject: bridal shower / wedding gift? |
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| If you have already given a bridal shower gift, what is appropriate to bring to the wedding reception? |
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zippythejessi Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 11:27 am Post subject: |
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| An envelope with cash in it. |
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penydred Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 11:29 am Post subject: |
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| A wedding gift should be relative to the cost for the host/hostess of your attendance |
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Kafkat Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 11:32 am Post subject: |
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| A bridal shower gift is a gift for the bride. A wedding gift is one for the couple. That said, offer whatever you're comfortable with. If you bought what you considered a wedding gift for the bridal shower gift, a card should be just fine for the wedding. If you decide to bring a wedding gift as well, go for it according to your means. (I really did want wooden spoons for my wedding.) After all, if you were at the bridal shower, you know the bride and she likely knows you and your situation -- namely that you want to share in this moment with her and her husband to be. |
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jebul Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 11:32 am Post subject: |
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| If you already purchased a bridal shower gift, then you are in the clear and do not need to bring a gift to the wedding. BUT, and a big but: If the gift you purchased was either:a) only for the bride to use or b) less than the amount you think they are paying for you and your guest to be at the weddingThen you must pick up a gift for the wedding that would be something that the couple could use and will balance out how much you have spent on the gift in comparison to how much they spent on you. You could also just bring a card with a check or cash in it. |
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Abercrombie & Fitch Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 11:33 am Post subject: |
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| I got a card"moneyholder card" and i put 3000 dollars in it. |
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Britney S Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 11:34 am Post subject: |
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| Since a bridal gift is for the bride(and groom depending on the gift), the wedding gift is for the bride and groom, or the household. Something of relative cost to the bridal gift. Or, a csh donation, whether to the happy couple, or in their name to their fave organization. |
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v.ley@sbcglobal.net Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 11:47 am Post subject: |
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| The best and cheapest thing to do is get something for both occassions from their "gift registry" lists. Usually people will apply for a gift registry from various stores to suit everyones price range. Good Luck! |
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Patti C Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 12:34 pm Post subject: |
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| I am afraid to tell you this, but....a gift is required for both occasions. I know it gets expensive, but that is the way it is. |
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stephimm Yahoo User
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Posted: Tue Jun 19, 2007 8:41 pm Post subject: |
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| A less expensive gift is usual for a shower, more expensive for the wedding. |
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berry Yahoo User
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Posted: Wed Jun 20, 2007 9:56 am Post subject: |
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| just bring yourself. |
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