I'm in a bind and need help,I'm engaged but have a problem I've been having lusting dreams for my ex bf
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Teeek
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 Posted: Fri Jul 06, 2007 4:25 am Post subject: I'm in a bind and need help,I'm engaged but have a problem I've been having lusting dreams for my ex bf |
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| I really don't want to be with my ex because he is a cheater,and tells alot of lies yet he was my first everything,but my fiance will drop everything and come to my rescue, he give me anything I want (sexually and mentally) even unexpected gifts,trips and flowers I just need to know how to get rid of this "lust" for my ex bf,because i really do love my fiance and have been happy with him until me and my ex came face-to-face the other day and i start having dreams about him...i just want to know how to get rid of this insanity so i can go about my life with my fiance with no worries. |
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dan brown
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| Posted: Fri Jul 06, 2007 4:31 am Post subject: |
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| talk to ur fiancee about ur situation and get it out of ur system |
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~Honey~
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| Posted: Fri Jul 06, 2007 4:32 am Post subject: |
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| every one will at one point lust over some one but you have to think of what is best for you and your life some one will always be attractive and all but who is it that will be there for you and will give you the best of the best for your life and if you were to have kids with wuld be there to take care of them? |
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e.kess
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| Posted: Fri Jul 06, 2007 4:43 am Post subject: |
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| The same thing happened to me. Im madly in love with my bf and we plan to get married, but when i saw my ex (my first every thing too) i started having "those" dreams. I did not like them tho. And in my dreams it was him but it was my current bf's body. weird...Id never ever go back to him. eewww. Its just a mental thing. when you have the dreams and you wake up, how do you feel? Do you feel dirty like you cheated, or do you feel unsure like you might have liked it? Dreams dont really mean what they say. You may dream about killing puppies but it dosent mean you should go do it or that you even want to. you need to be very very honest with yourself here. If you think you might still have feelings for your ex you need to do the right thing and get out befor you get hitched. Your question makes me think you arent very sure you know how you feel, but is it the fact that your dreaming that bothers you or is it the way the dreams make you feel that bothers you? Figure that out first then take the next step.. |
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