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Mitch97
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 Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 5:39 pm Post subject: would it be inappropriate to send ex-lover a gift for her birthday? |
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| i dated this girl for a few months and things fell apart cause she wasn't ready for anything serious and i couldn't really handle it. i still have strong feelings for her and her birthday is coming up. we haven't talked in a couple months but i would really like to see her again. her birthday is coming up. would it be inappropriate to send her a small gift certificate or something for her birthday or just a card?also, would it be wrong to tell her that i still feel something for her? |
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rpoker
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| Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 5:42 pm Post subject: |
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| omg yes! |
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lost soul 2
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| Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 5:42 pm Post subject: |
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| a card .. and yeah tell her how u feel |
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questionman1234
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| Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 5:42 pm Post subject: |
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| You should send her a gift, not a gift certificate. You can tell her you miss her and she would thinkg twice about you remembering. Theres nothing wrong with letting her know your feelings but just play it by ear and don't be pushy about it. |
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Blackjack
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| Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 5:43 pm Post subject: |
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| You never know until you try, and if your card comes back then youll know your answer. Include your number and if she calls then you have what you want. |
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nickygirl_3
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| Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 5:44 pm Post subject: |
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| Yes, don't do it. |
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Stormbringer
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| Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 5:45 pm Post subject: |
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| Don't appear needy or desperate. Something small or even just a card seems appropriate to me, but don't get something expensive--after all, this is an ex. This puts you back in her mind, shows you're still friendly. But don't wait forever, either. You have to get on with your life at some point. |
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I_am_Here_and_Happy
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| Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 5:46 pm Post subject: |
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I think a card and something for her birthday would not be inappropriate. It sounds like you could still be friends and that's what friends do. I think a small gift certificate would be weird, they just are not as personal. You can say more with a real gift. Maybe on her birthday is not the time to say something about your feelings. You could call her to see if she got your card or gift a few days later though  |
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anooshiglove
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| Posted: Thu Jul 05, 2007 5:49 pm Post subject: |
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| okay u cannot give her a b-day gift then tell her u still like her. no u have to choose, either give her the b-day gift or tell her ur feelings because she will assume u gave her a gift so as win her over. u know like ur only being nice just so u can get back wiht her. but then again u can take the chance and do both. but u should really do what u think is right. but i think it would be a nice gesture to give the gift, then start to become friends again then go from there. |
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