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hellofromwyo
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 8:42 pm    Post subject: Wedding Gift? Reply with quote

I have a friend who is getting married. She had her bridal shower yesterday, which I brought a gift to. Do I still buy her an actual wedding gift? I'm not trying to be cheap. I just don't want to go overboard so...Do you normally buy a bridal shower gift and a wedding gift? Or just one or the other?
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♥♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 8:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I know people who did both for my brothers wedding. They brought things to the bridal shower and something else to the wedding reception. I guess its all up to you really. If you spent a large amount on the bridal shower gift, find something cheaper on the registry for the wedding.
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Oreo
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 8:46 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

ALLIZDWAG and Printninja
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jenny lee
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 8:52 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I was a bridesmaid for my friend, so I bought a gift for her bridal shower (from myself) and for the wedding we gave her $$.So, my answer is yes, you would have to give a gift for the wedding if you are invited.
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MB-n-KC
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 8:54 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

I'm a bit 'cheap myself. I would get another gift or give them a check. It does not have to be very $$$
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Betty M
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 9:04 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Set yourself a limit how much you intend to spend.Since you already bought for the bridal shower,if you are going to the wedding reception maybe just a card to Mr.& Mrs.with some money in it.
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yaz20100
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 9:16 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

i'm not sure how it is done in your country but here we give the gift as cash money in an envelope.
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tinachick77
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 29, 2007 11:26 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes, you should give a gift at the wedding as well. If you give cash it should be enough to cover the cost of your plate (meal).
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berry
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 9:27 am    Post subject: Reply with quote

The bridal shower is the time when the wedding gift is solicited. So no more gift need to be given anymore.
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ak
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PostPosted: Mon Jul 30, 2007 1:33 pm    Post subject: Reply with quote

Yes, you bring a gift to both. Traditionally, since both are invitations, by accepting the invitation and going to the party a gift is expected. A realistic bride should know that your presence is gift enough, but some get hung up over this problem.
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